To make the effort if it may never happen?

Hi All, Im going out of my mind here. Could do with some advice. I started dating a girl about 4 months ago, I took her on 3 dates that went well but after the 3rd date she told me she wasnt ready for a relationship. So I agreed that I would back off and just be a friend. Since then we have seen each other at least once a week, just hangin out with mutual friends or watching a movie or me cooking dinner for her. In the time we do hang out we get pretty close, we have "in jokes" between us, we hug alot and she squeezes when I hug her. I've kissed her a few times while I was taking her on dates but never had sex. About a month ago we got a little drunk at a party and started talking about our feelings for each other, the next day it was rather awkward and we couldn't remember what we had said. So I asked her what she wanted, she said she still had some things she needed to work out and felt that getting into a relationship was the wrong thing to do but she really likes me and she was worried that I would find someone else before she was ready. I told her I was not looking for a girlfriend but if someone came along I would not say no and I wont wait for her. So things went along as normal, 2 weeks ago I met another girl at a party and got her number and have been talking to her. 1 week ago I saw the girl I was dating, as soon as she looked at me I melted. I realised I think im hung up on this girl and I dont want anyone else. I really think shes worth my time, we have so much fun together but I cant tell what her issue is or how long its going to take for her to work it out. I havent met any other girl ive been this interested in. My question is do I let her go or fight for her even though I may never get my chance? Do I tell her that im not interested in anyone else? Is dating someone else going to break her trust? What do I do about the new girl, keep talking to her? See how things go? Thanks for the replies, sorry its a bit long, these things are never simple... Kane 28 Male

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