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Secrets and Lies - Help!

I've been with my current husband going on 1yr and a half now, married almost 1yr. Everything started off great, I have 3 kids he has 3 kids and we all hit it off pretty well. After about a few months into the relationship I found out that his ex was pregnant with his child, who from our calculations was conceived about a month before we first hooked up. I didn't find out until 3 months later, he kept if from me the entire time. I went ahead and gave him the benefit of the doubt, and ever since then I feel that everything he tells me are nothing but lies and that he has other "secrets" he's not telling me. Little things to him, like still paying child support on an older kid, having his ex's kids on his insurance policy and now this baby mama drama are insignificant and he constantly tells me that these are things of the past...that I shouldn't question him about his past...I don't know what to do! I have been completely honest and loyal to him since day one, all I ask is the same in return and when I try to explain that to him, he says to quit worrying about his past that it has nothing to do with me. Uhhhh, hello if your past is coming back to bite you in the a** it is my business! ~ Am I right? Is this relationship even worth trying to salvage...or should I just call it quits...I'm tired of men lying, cheating and hiding crap from me...happened in every relationship before this one... :confused:




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