| OK, so as we all know there are quite a few decent, nice, genuine guys out there who actually respect girls. But there are also "nice guys" - i.e. the stereotypical guys who are actually really sleazy and just want sex, but try to manipulate girls into this by being "nice" to them just the way a friend would, and then complain about being "friendzoned" should a girl not sleep with them or show any romantic interest. They tend to masquerade as the former. So how do you tell the difference between them, especially if you don't know someone very well? Actions speak louder than words but it's hard to know what kind of action to look out for sometimes. Is it also true that "nice guys" are generally not the typical alpha-male, attractive, popular gym-going types? Because I have quite a few friends like the latter and none of these friends are manipulative in that way. They tend to be quite direct if a bit blunt. I'm beginning to think I should stick to dating guys like those, as I've seen some of my friends "sette" for the quiet geeky types whom might be less attractive and "interesting" but seem much nicer, only to find it was all a pretence and the guy just wanted sex or a relationship. | |||
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