Cheated on and dumped.

Hi guys. I have posted a thread many weeks ago about a situation I had where my girlfriend of 2.5 years had been two-timing me. After confronting her about it, she agreed to break up with the guy and work on our relationship and I accepted her back. However, over a week ago - out of the blue, she told me she was leaving me. The only explanation she would give was that I was too immature for her, that I wasn't "good enough" and "never would be" (those are real quotes). I was devastated, I begged her but it didn't work. Now, I have just found out that she has continued to see that third party (the whole time) and actually planned it out all along, to eventually leave me for him when she felt secure enough in her plans with him. She told some of her close friends of her strategy and thankfully, I found out through the grapevine. Even though it's over already and we haven't had any contact (apart from the first week of being really heartbroken where I pathetically begged her a few times via email to take me back). Now I'm feeling less heartbroken since it's been over a week, but I still need advice on how to get over her. Yes, I'm convinced rationally that she's a terrible person now - but I still feel that emotional yearning for her and get terrible dreams at night where I relive old memories. Secondly, I'd also like to know if there are any social strategies that I can employ to prevent her from spreading untruths about us. She has been going around claiming to be the victim (while conveniently leaving out details about the third party) and while most of our mutual friends know better, some might be drinking her kool-aid and I'd much rather the truth be in the clear.

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