| Ok so here is my story, my wife and I have been together almost 13 years married almost 10, we had our ups and downs along the road then last summer she told me she wanted to split up and start seeing other people. Well obviously I wasnt happy I was very upset but what can I do she saw several different men I saw a couple women but I wasnt over her so I couldnt enjoy it. So heres where things get interesting we got to the point we talked about who we were seeing even exchanging pics of the others dates. I knew she met this guy off Plenty of fish so me being me I looked him up, I went as far as making a fake female profile used some blonde bimbos pics on there and made contact with him. Well it turned out the guy was like most a perv sent me **** pics right away for one, then kept talking sex and sex. So I got him to talk about my wife to me and he said alot of things about her even that they had sex twice which she denies and I believe her, so I k ept probing and probing and sure enough he even sent me pictures of my wife that she had sent him. Most were just posing face pics but one in particular that bugged me was her bent over our bed in front of a mirror with her ass in the mirror and her face also in the pic. I had some family look the guy up he had a couple domestic abuse charges that he had hit her on different occasions, he had stalking charges and injury to a child to where he hit his child when he was in an altercation with his ex wife even. So not only was this guy a perv, but a wife beater and in my eyes saw my wife as nothing more than a piece of ass. So I wanted to stop the relationship I couldnt tell her she would get mad so I put my wifes pic she sent him of her and her ass on craigslist under rant and rave wrote her name in the heading and acted like the woman who he had been talking to saying she needs to stay away. I wrote my wife a text asking why her ass was on craigslist she saw was embarrased I erased it saying I flagged it for removal, all that day I posted several other posts on craigslist about her posing as this woman, one in particular was about her stomach which she is insecure about shes had 3 kids. Anyway I eventually as this woman start talking with my wife on google chat and keep talking to the guy too as her as well this continued on several weeks my wife told me all about this and showed me some of the chats they exchanged. Basically all my chats to my wife as this woman were about not seeing this guy hes bad news I then told her I was his ex and he hit me. So my wife was really really stressed over the situation like bad but I didnt stop it. Then my wife asked me to dinner one night we went out she showed me texts her and the woman exchanged she was stressed after dinner we talked in the car for a while I offered to go home and give her a massage which we did and also ended up having sex. So for the next while things got better between us I would come up regularly she still talked to the other guy too and me as the woman. Finally she started thinking it was me and I got backed into the corner and fessed up but instead of being totally mad she was relieved, so we kept seeing each other more frequently until finally I moved back into the house. Things got better as time went on, I learned from our break up that I loved her more than I ever thought or showed her I had a whole new appreciation for her and love for her and I wanted to show her. I bought her flowers and gifts on the regular basis which I never did before, I told her every day how beautiful she was and how much I loved her. I felt happier than ever and it seemed she was too our sex life was better than ever everything was great. Once in a while she was moody and brought up what I did posing as that woman saying it bothered her, but never to the point of breaking up. Well last week she tells me she loves me but not IN LOVE, so as we talk more about what the probl em is she brings what I did up. She says she cant fully trust me cant fully give me her heart because of what I did and she just cant get past it, its been 9 months and she seemed happy most of the time. So heres what the point of this is we both want to see what non biased opinions are of this situation she feels like she stuck up for me to her parents who saw those craigslist posts they thought it was me and also that she cant give her heart to a man who would do that. We have 3 kids we own a house and I dont want to lose her and I know I am not gonna do that again I had more issues than a broken marriage at the time I also came out at the time all that happened about being molested as a kid by my middle school teacher and that had bugged me and took a major tole on our sex life, since then sex has been so much better but last summer I was in a bad mind with that and my marriage I just felt it time to let it all out as to what my issues were. So people what do you think??? I wanna save our marriage she doesnt know she says she is 99% sure shes moving out after our son is done with school and wants her space not divorce just space. She doesnt wanna see anyone else but just wants space and possibly a fresh start with someone else. Please be honest dont hold back |
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