| I have been married for 5 months to the day I found out my husband has been cheating on me. His best friend has been married 8 months to the day after. My husband and his wife cheated with each other. C and I have been together for about 5 years and married for 5 months. S and M have been together for 7 years and married for 8 months. I have always hated S, but have been nice for the sake of friendships and C and M have been best friends for 9 years. We have all been friends since college and not only have our marriages been destroyed, but friendships have been ruined. C and S have been having sex for a month (February). They have done it while M was in the house. S told M that they did it once while I was in the house, but C denys that. C and I have been arguing and not having sex for about a month, but I never got to the point where I would have cheated. We have also been great since the beginning of March. S and M are in a similar situation, but worse because she literally does nothing and M just takes care of her. C is telling me it was just for the sex and it only happened during February. S is no longer in contact with either of us, but M and I are still conversing to try and figure out why this happened. I don't believe in divorce b/c of religious reasons, but I don't know if i can forgive this. I am numb. I hate him and then I love him. I want to divorce him, but I want him to stay. I don't want to start over. I know I didn't cheat, but I still feel like I failed. How do you ever take someone back and gain the trust again? How do you know it will not haunt you forever? He cheated once before prior to our marriage, at the beginning of the relationship and that took me forever to get over even though I know it was done. I am tired of being someone's second choice, but he is ultimately my first choice. He is sorry and says he will do whatever I want to do to fix this. Is once a cheater always a cheater really true (from a married prospective)? | |||
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