| My husband and I have known each other for 22 years. We "dated" for 2 years in school. His family moved away so we lost touch. I found him 14 years later, and within 3 weeks he rode his motorcycle across the country to come back to me. We got married 2 years later and now have a family together. Sounds like a fairy tale, right? Well, it was. We have always had a wonderful relationship. We both deal with depression issues, but it never got in the way of us. Recently (within the past month) that has changed. He started distancing himself from me. He started texting and talking on the phone with one of our female friends.... A lot! When I found out about it and brought it up to him, he stopped immediately. He realized that it was inappropriate and apologized a lot for it. He said that nothing happened between them, and I believe him. He has never given me a reason NOT to believe him. He hasn't had any contact with her since. So, I figured I would jus t put it behind us and keeping moving on. Things have gotten worse, though. He has been rude and just plain angry. I admit, I did read one of his text conversations with his friend, and I didn't want to read anymore. My gut was telling me that something was up, and I was right. In the text he was talking junk about me and saying that "the honeymoon was over". His friend's reply to this was, "just do what I do with my wife. Tell her together on her knees and suck it". :'(. My husband replied with laughter. I was so hurt and didn't know what to think. Firstly, he has never talked crap about me. His friends always say that he loves me and it makes them sick how sweet he talks about me. Secondly, he would have NEVER allowed someone else to talk about me in such a rude way!!! I don't understand what has happened. We have always treated each other like gold. I didn't tell him that I read the text, but I gave him the chance to come clean about it. I asked him if he ever talks badly about me. He said, "what are you talking about? No! I don't even talk about our problems with people." Ugh!!! I don't know what to do? Why is he pulling away from me? Why is he suddenly treating me like dirt? :'( |
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