| I've posted here before, so I'll keep it brief. Me and my ex(of two years) broke up in January. We'd had a lot of problems but we ended amicably, and it seemed like a good way to end. Fast forward a few months, and it's turned to ****. I spoke to her a couple of months ago and thought that we could be friends(naive I know), but I also wanted some closure on our relationship. We were civil at fine, but over time we just became very on-and-off. And now, we're just arguing with each other. My issue is about some of the nasty things she did in the relationship, and she just wants me to leave her alone. I'm sure a lot of people should say we should have no contact, and I kinda agree. But we've tried that(since we initially started talking), and it didn't help me. But now, even talking doesn't help because we're just arguing. It's like she hates me now, and I can't stand that. Admittedly, I feel negative about her now due to the issues we had and I'm finding it difficult to forgive her.. So maybe I'm being hypocritical in being upset that she may hate me when I have some pretty nasty feelings of my own, but the thing is I just want us to be OK. But now, if we just stop talking now(which she is insistent on), then we're just gonna end like this. And it's ****. This is my first breakup and right now it just feels like our whole relationship was a waste of time and we never should have met and now we hate each other. GREAT :( | |||
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