Experiment

I have a theory that withholding sex is purely and solely a selfish power grab by a woman who is utterly bored in her relationship. That is, not that she is necessarily married to a boring man, but that she knows beyond a shadow of a doubt that that man is totally and utterly committed to her and to the relationship. So here's my experimental question, what would happen if the husband treated his wallet the way the wife treats sex and intimacy? What if the rules of the wallet were (unbeknownst to the wife) exactly those that the wife used to deny, delay, and prevent sex, intimacy, and affection? I'm thinking, close the joint checking, shut down the joint visa, redistribute all joint investments, and put the wife on a cash only financial basis. Probably wreak hell on the marriage at first, but would she learn from this turn-about of the rules? Let me see: Wife's rule: No sex at night it gives me insomnia. My rule: No money/spending at night it gives me insomnia. Wife's rule: No sex in the morning I didn't sleep well. My rule; No money/spending in the morning I didn't get laid. Wife's rule: All you want is sex so I have to stop any and all intimacy or affection. My rule: We never have sex or intimacy so I have to stop all and any spending. You get the idea....wonder what other rules there should be and what the rest of you think about this idea?

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