Custody: STBXH still making bad decisions

I filed for sole legal and pyshical custody with visitation 10% of the time from STBXH. He has shown such incredibly bad judgement in the past with regards to who and what our son is exposed to I felt that if he can't be trusted to make responsible decisions I will make those decisions for him. So it turns out the young skank he got pregnant is a friend of his 22 yo daughters (his DD from another relationship), IF that is not gross enough the skank has been yelling from the rooftops she is pregnant with my husband's baby... my step daughter knows about the pregnancy and she lives with my STBXH. Step daughter threatens to tell our son when she gets in a fight with my STBXH. Step daughter hates me (always has) so will not respect my wishes. I have discussed this issue at length with our family therapist and the therapist said our son being who he is and his emotional issues related to his autism and ADD and anxiety, will need a long process of therapy to prepare him for this news. My poor little boy already thinks daddy left because he was "broken"... How I hate my STBXH for what he's done to us. So I tried to talk to the STBXH about limiting my son's exposure to his daughter and the skank who apparently keeps on coming over and starting disturbing scenes in his front yard. I told him at least until his daughter moves out he could have visitation at my house (I would leave of course) or take my son out for the day. The ex YET AGAIN laughed at me and told me he can do what he wants with our son. I explained my reasoning for this request and was told "you're being rediculous". I asked him please lets work this out between us. He said "F#*K OFF". So off I go to the courthouse today to file a stay away order for these 2 nutbag women. I've prepared a statement for the judgement supporting my request. Can anyone chime in on this? Stay away orders on custody paperwork in California? Am I just hoping or do the judges take emotional needs of the kids into consideration... Please help!

Put the internet to work for you. via Personal Recipe 2629979