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Any successful second marriages?

I have posted before about the verbal and physical abuse in my marriage. After 19 years, I am rapidly coming to the conclusion that life is too long to continue the way I have been going. My wife gives no answers or apologies regarding her threats of divorce, or verbal abuse and name called. She basically expects me to "take it" because I am a guy and not say a word to anyone. Out of sheer hurt, and frustration of knowing what to think or do, I have shared with others. She will not acknowledge or even address this issue. She does not hear what I say at all regarding this. So much so, that now, after all these years and and after the espisodes last summer, I have gone dead inside towards her. My belly is full, and I won't stand for threats or verbal name calling anymore. Really thinking of divorce this summer. I know all relationships have issues, and I am not looking to get out of this relationship and go to the next one or anything like that. I don't think the grass is greener on the other side all the time just because you are having issues now. I really think my wife has Borderline Personality Disorder. Tired, and just don't want to do it anymore.

So, how many people were in a first marriage, realized it wasn't going to work, got out because of that, and then at some later time, found someone else they were more compatible with?




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