| So, a couple of years ago I had a serious health scare and now I have several health concerns based on those problems. I am not able to work, drive, or work out. My other problem is that the sex in our relationship has gone stale and so has our conversations, dating life, and pretty much everything else. My wife tells me she is still attracted to me even though when it comes time to have sex she would rather be on the computer watching Youtube (people playing video games). I am no longer able to do a lot of the things that make me feel like a man. Sex is one of those few things I have left. I have tried spontaneity (my wife hates it). I have tried random flowers (wife loved it for all of 2 seconds but didn't even get a kiss out of it). I have tried sexts, general love you, beautiful, sexy texts (ALWAYS responds with love you, too no matter what I send). Over that two years, only been a couple of times when she has initiated sex and those times it was hot, passionate, and great. Then she seems to want to go for 7-8 months without it. I have been battling these emotions over the death of our relationship (things were GREAT before my health scare) as it was. What makes it worse is that she is completely different than the last several years. The things that used to make her laugh don't anymore. The things that used to turn her on don't anymore. The things that we used to do together she doesn't like doing anymore. I am just lost. Would appreciate any advice because I am at wits end. Thank you! Fred | |||
| | |||
| | |||
|
No comments:
Post a Comment