Tell me I'm an A hole

so, my 19 year old son does not want to live with his mom and stepdad anymore. 1 He's decided to quit college....a free ride from me. 2 decided to quit his job...a bus boy job that he could have been a server several times but flunked the server test 3 blew up the motor in his car which was given to him and sold it...oh, and we paid the insurance for him as well 4 his father in law owns a company and won't even have him work there, while he hires his friend..landscaping 5 a professed lover of physics, but decides to smoke pot, do ex, molly and surround himself with numbnuts 6 want to "blow with the wind" without responsibility..... so, he decided he can't take it at home anymore because his father in law is being a jerk. goes to live with the enabling grandmother for handouts. anywho after being there, and being there, and being there for him I had enough when he told me he wants to come stay over here but still does not want to get a job or have a plan...he just wants to blow with the wind...... Am I an A hole because I told him to wake up, take responsibility for his life and stop burdening others because of his refusal to have accountability for anything except friends and parties? I told him that and also told him not to call me until he does, cause I aint buyin it anymore or supporting it. thoughts?

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