Healthy Jealousy vs Perception that Spouse doesn't give a s**t

What are people's views on jealousy/possessiveness in a healthy relationship? What's normal and what's not? By not demonstrating a certain amount of "possessiveness" are you showing you're secure in your relationship or that you don't care? Not feeling the need to "check-up" on your partner shows trust and security, which is obviously a good thing but a lack of interest or concern about that person's whereabouts or who their friends are may also be construed as "he/she doesn't care what I do" Thoughts would be much appreciated. Thanks! ps. One doesn't wanna come across as suffocating and "stay away from my man/woman else I'll deck you one" It's kind of undignified and unneccessary as long as they've given you no reason to distrust them. On the same hand, it's nice to know your partner is territorial about you in a manageable way. Makes a person feel loved and wanted?

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