| I can't believe I'm here like many of you. I have been with my wife for 15 years married for 7.5. We have 3 kids 5-4-2 and are both 31. We have had a solid relationship until the last year and a half or so. We have talked about how things have gotten routine and not exciting but I just shrugged it off that we have been together for so long. Just about all of the intimate times were initiated by me but we would have sex 1-3 times a week which I was ok with. I saw plenty of signs that she was having an affair but I never thought she was capable of doing this. She is a great mother and just overall good person. Well, I totally underestimated her and D-day was on Good Friday. We were having drinks this Friday with another couple and me and the other husband ran out for more beer. We ended up having 2 drinks at the bar and headed back with the 12 pack. We got home and other wife was passed out on the couch. I go upstairs and find my wife passed out on the bed, holding a cell phone I have never seen. It was one of those cheap prepaid phones from Walmart. I woke her up and after a struggle I left with the phone and drove to an empty parking lot with it. She initially downplayed what happened but eventually admitted to a 9 month affair. I feel so stupid as I have been right so many times and questioned her about the other guy. Now the other guy is my wife's best friends brother, she was over there all of the time with the kids for play dates and slept over when they went out so she didn't have to drive home. I was weary about all of this and it became more frequent over the last couple of months. There are a ton more details as you can imagine but I just can't see spending the rest of my life without her. She already ended it with other guy and we want to make this work. How do you trust again? When will the pain stop? | |||
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