Can't decide how I feel

So for back ground here is my previous links: http://talkaboutmarriage.com/reconci...fixing-us.html http://talkaboutmarriage.com/going-t...y-2-years.html Cliff notes: falling out over time in first 2 years of marriage due to me being dishonest about porn and then admitting. 1 year of me earning trust. Her disconnecting then going out with friends. Had an overnight stay that initially was told in a way that was different to later. Event in question and it's alteration: So on an evening out with a friend, my wife became drunk with a group of individuals. One individual in particular she was attracted to and expressed interest in. However the described events don't sound realistic in the sense of what occurred and how it occurred. 1. She was drunk and her and OM laid down on a couch together, others in room, spooning. 2. Eventually he would go to leave, she's kind of falling asleep. She follows him out to his car. 3. He leads her back to the house and leaves her at the door of the house. 4. She goes to the guest bedroom and falls asleep alone. 5. Returns home to me and explains that she did stay the night over at this house, but did not sleep with anyone. However the initial story did not include 1-3. My thoughts, 1-3 probably where more like this. 1. She was drunk and her and OM laid down on a couch together, feeling each other up but not necessarily sex as others are in room. 2. He goes to leave, she follows him out and A: more of the same occurs, feeling, touching, petting maybe oral. B: A quickie in the car. 3. A: He takes her back to the house, goodnight kiss. B: He stays the night as well and they sleep together, 4. part of #3. 5. She comes home and proceeds to tell version A of story while version B (my version) is probably closer to reality. Anyone think I'm probably closer and she's full of it? She did say we could contact OM together on speaker, she could ask him questions while he does not know I'm present to verify the events. Also agreed to lie detector test, I feel this isn't very accurate though. I've kind of checked out, at this point I'm kind of just tired and done. Just curious what others might think. She has made a lot of good effort and has seeming to be 100% committed to this. I just have an issue with the truth and it's a real deal breaker as so far this story first never happened, then he and she were there, now it's alittle more intimate.

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