Hello Everyone,
Ive been married to my highschool sweetheart for 29 years. Sex has always been an issue (For her not me) and if I had a dollar for ev) ery excuse I would be filthy rich.
In our youngerdays it used to be " Women get sexually active around 40" So now that were in our 40' its the same B.S.
Heres an example...
Last night I told her I would love to have sex. (Its like i have to make an appointment)
She gets off work at 5pm last night so we went out to dinner. After dinner I asked if she wanted to got o a local bar to listed to music and it was a no. She immediately gets on the computer to play games and contests from 5pm on. Around 10 pm I asked if she wanted to go upstairs and she said she still had to finish work paperwork online and watch the news.
( The paperwork takes 15 minutes and she had all evening to do it. We have a flatscreen T.V. in the bedroom so the news culd have been watched in there)
Heres the killer part.... Ive told her many times that she should be the one to initiate the sex seeing as its rarely when I want it. She tells me over and over " I am not the initiating type person"
This B.S. goes on and on. then this morning she knows im upset and when I ask her a question about it I get the same answer " Your just looking to argue"
Its sad when A husband has to get the runaround and do it manually all the time because his wife would rather spend hours playing games and contests on line...
ANY COMMENTS OPINIONS?
P.S
Ive been diagnosed with P.T.S.D. so I dont stay up real late anymore due to being tired yet I just keep getting the same old excuses...
Ive been married to my highschool sweetheart for 29 years. Sex has always been an issue (For her not me) and if I had a dollar for ev) ery excuse I would be filthy rich.
In our youngerdays it used to be " Women get sexually active around 40" So now that were in our 40' its the same B.S.
Heres an example...
Last night I told her I would love to have sex. (Its like i have to make an appointment)
She gets off work at 5pm last night so we went out to dinner. After dinner I asked if she wanted to got o a local bar to listed to music and it was a no. She immediately gets on the computer to play games and contests from 5pm on. Around 10 pm I asked if she wanted to go upstairs and she said she still had to finish work paperwork online and watch the news.
( The paperwork takes 15 minutes and she had all evening to do it. We have a flatscreen T.V. in the bedroom so the news culd have been watched in there)
Heres the killer part.... Ive told her many times that she should be the one to initiate the sex seeing as its rarely when I want it. She tells me over and over " I am not the initiating type person"
This B.S. goes on and on. then this morning she knows im upset and when I ask her a question about it I get the same answer " Your just looking to argue"
Its sad when A husband has to get the runaround and do it manually all the time because his wife would rather spend hours playing games and contests on line...
ANY COMMENTS OPINIONS?
P.S
Ive been diagnosed with P.T.S.D. so I dont stay up real late anymore due to being tired yet I just keep getting the same old excuses...
Put the internet to work for you.
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