When to go back into dating?

Any theories on the right time for a guy to start dating after a failed marriage?

• As soon as Divorce is a assured and R is out of the question?
  
• Wait for divorce?
  
• Sex months After Divorce or formal separation?
  
• Is it different for women?

I would like to go on some social dates ASAP, but can't see getting serious until I am sure I am not on the rebound. Would hate to screw up something good because my head was not straight.

Any stories of early dating that went bad, or good?

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