Before I start, first let me say this....my wife and I have not been getting along so well for various reasons and our relationship is not the "cohesive" relationship that it once was and its not because of any infidelity or anything like that its just because of life and family issues.
With that being said, it is Memorial Day Holiday weekend and today (Sunday) was supposed to be our "Holiday" together due to the fact that both of us have to work tomorrow. This past Friday, my wife bought cookout food items for our holiday today, she even went so far as to text me last Friday and ask what I wanted to eat for today.
So, here is my problem. She bought all of this food for our "Holiday" together today and yesterday she informed me that one of her friends wanted to meet today. Here's is my problem with this, she has been gone all day without a word. At 5pm, I finally sent her a text and asked if she was still there and she replied yes (by the way, it is an hour drive away). I replied "I guess this means we are not eating together today?" She replied with "We can have a late dinner".
Really? This has really upset me and quite honestly I am mad about it. Am I a bastard for feeling this way? Am I being selfish? I just don't understand why she would go thru all of the trouble of texting me to ask what I want, buy the food and then be gone all day.
With that being said, it is Memorial Day Holiday weekend and today (Sunday) was supposed to be our "Holiday" together due to the fact that both of us have to work tomorrow. This past Friday, my wife bought cookout food items for our holiday today, she even went so far as to text me last Friday and ask what I wanted to eat for today.
So, here is my problem. She bought all of this food for our "Holiday" together today and yesterday she informed me that one of her friends wanted to meet today. Here's is my problem with this, she has been gone all day without a word. At 5pm, I finally sent her a text and asked if she was still there and she replied yes (by the way, it is an hour drive away). I replied "I guess this means we are not eating together today?" She replied with "We can have a late dinner".
Really? This has really upset me and quite honestly I am mad about it. Am I a bastard for feeling this way? Am I being selfish? I just don't understand why she would go thru all of the trouble of texting me to ask what I want, buy the food and then be gone all day.
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