I know this title is a very typical cliché question but I need advice from people my age. My boyfriend and I are both 20 and we have been together for around a year. I told him quite early on that I think I love him. Everyday since I have loved him more and more. I tell him how I feel all the time and he always replied saying he was unsure what love was as he has never said it before but reassured me he still wants to be with me and cares for me etc. He eventually told me did and I was so happy and content, and then one day he told me he didn't anymore because he still doesn't know what love is? However he said he cares for me more than anyone and would do anything to stay with me. I didn't speak to him for around a week because I was distraught and even when I told him I couldn't be with him knowing he lied he would rather lose me than say it. Since then we have worked it out and have attempted to carry on as normal but I don't know if I can anymore! How can I be with someone who doesn't love me back? How can he not feel the same and still want to be with me? Why can't he say it to me? He hasn't had a serious long term relationship before just quite a lot of short lasting ones and I asked if he didn't love me because he loved one of those still and he said no, he just doesn't know. I don't understand how somebody can be so confused about how they feel. Do I stay with him and hope one day he says it or shall I attempt to try and move on and get over him? HELP!
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