I'm an outgoing person and have become a lot more confident over the past 3 years at uni. However, I still have done much with a girl. I've kissed but that's it.
I now think I know what my issue is. It's going beyond chatting. I look back to my first year and this was cute girl at work. I met her, we exchanged numbers and I think she expected me to text her (I could see in later shifts some signs). But I didn't. It's only looking back that I realise that I acted really naturally but didn't seize the chance.
A few girls have recently questioned why I haven't got a gf. The answer is partly that I'm not a lovey dovey type and I'm not overly keen but I think the underlying issue is I'm not actually making moves. I'm wouldn't say I'm super buff, but I'd say I'm slightly above average with a cute face (what I've been told) but can anyone give any tips on how to make subtle moves or how to overcome the fear?
It's weird because in any other walk of life I'm pretty confident, presentations, interviews, even just meeting new people. But when it comes to anything sexual or lovey related I freeze lol
Put the internet to work for you.
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