Hi all, short of the long....wife and I have been married 8 years. Over the past few months..... years of drinking, lying and emotional neglect (on my part) have come to a head. She is in a place where she is totally ambivalent and numb towards me. She is unsure if she wants to remain married and says that she loves me no more than a friend at this point. I am seeking individual counseling and attending AA meetings and we have been to two marriage counseling sessions. We are amicable at this point and are living our lives ie...taking care of the kids, family time, activities etc....So, yesterday she woke up in a very bad mood and explained that she just started feeling very angry about our situation. She said she feels bad about being angry because she sees the effort that I am putting in and sees that I am really trying to remedy my inner turmoil. My question....is the fact that she has gone from ambivalence to anger actually a good thing? At least she i s feeling something right? I am taking things in stride and am resolved to fix myself and our marriage.
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