One of my guy friends is really passive-aggressive, emotional, and can be quite introverted and sulky too so he's very difficult to get through to. How do I friend-dump him and get him to leave me alone? If he says hi, do I just ignore him or what? I CBA to even be civil to him though I am usually nice to people.
Ever since we've met, he has usually been nice and almost too friendly to my face (when he's not sulking) but he also says really subtle stuff to friends that always comes off as a backhanded compliment to me? (For example, I was once the only person wearing something green at a party, and he said something loudly to someone else from right besides me about how "people who wear green when it isn't St Patrick's Day look like hippies" randomly). He does this a lot, not just that one time. It's definitely having a go at me because of the specific nature of what he says.
He can be nice sometimes (else I wouldn't even call him a friend, we have many similiar interests) but then he just changes for no reason, if I say stuff like "good luck with that job interview you have tomorrow" he won't say thanks but just continue moaning about how he can't be bothered to prepare. I don't understand why he would look at me so much and then be rude and sulky if I make an effort to talk to him. I just find him really negative. I'm not sure if he likes to emotionally play games with people or what.
For example, he is always STARING at me with a blank expression on his face, and then when I look back at him he jerks his head away but it's so obvious. He does this about 2 or 3 times and it is weird. I also see him in the library or in cafes sometimes, though whenever he sees me he often won't say hi (and is really quiet if I do so) and just stares at me for literally half an hour straight which is really weird - I'll be looking up from my work and he'll be staring at me!! Once I was in the library with a colleague from work, and the colleague leaned over and whispered to me "That guy over there has been staring at you for ages". I looked up and there he was :S
Anyway, story short I am pissed off with his behaviour. How do I get rid? :S
Ever since we've met, he has usually been nice and almost too friendly to my face (when he's not sulking) but he also says really subtle stuff to friends that always comes off as a backhanded compliment to me? (For example, I was once the only person wearing something green at a party, and he said something loudly to someone else from right besides me about how "people who wear green when it isn't St Patrick's Day look like hippies" randomly). He does this a lot, not just that one time. It's definitely having a go at me because of the specific nature of what he says.
He can be nice sometimes (else I wouldn't even call him a friend, we have many similiar interests) but then he just changes for no reason, if I say stuff like "good luck with that job interview you have tomorrow" he won't say thanks but just continue moaning about how he can't be bothered to prepare. I don't understand why he would look at me so much and then be rude and sulky if I make an effort to talk to him. I just find him really negative. I'm not sure if he likes to emotionally play games with people or what.
For example, he is always STARING at me with a blank expression on his face, and then when I look back at him he jerks his head away but it's so obvious. He does this about 2 or 3 times and it is weird. I also see him in the library or in cafes sometimes, though whenever he sees me he often won't say hi (and is really quiet if I do so) and just stares at me for literally half an hour straight which is really weird - I'll be looking up from my work and he'll be staring at me!! Once I was in the library with a colleague from work, and the colleague leaned over and whispered to me "That guy over there has been staring at you for ages". I looked up and there he was :S
Anyway, story short I am pissed off with his behaviour. How do I get rid? :S
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