*Yes, I do know the difference between the two terms, guys*
For those who don't know:
Bisexual = romantically and/or sexually attracted to two sexes/genders, (usually male and female).
Pansexual = also known as omnisexual, romantically and/or sexually attracted to all sexes and genders, regardless of what is between the legs, as long as there is mutual love. Personality > sex. Indifferent to sex/gender. "Genderblind".
I've always called myself "bisexual" as I am familiar with those feelings and I know that I could have a relationship with either. (I have done this before). I do experience lust for men and women and I could have a good relationship with either- but I want a meaningful relationship that is indifferent to the sex and gender. And that is achievable too. Even though I have felt and seemed bi for the 2 or so years that I have known and been out, what if I am really pansexual? I mean, even though I do like men and women, (two familiar and sexy sexes), I am into trans people too, because we trans people are just men and women too, and I could even date an agender if I really wanted, all it would take is the effort to use the name and the neutral pronoun(s) which wouldn't be too hard, and I could even date an asexual too because I don't mind having a sexless relationship. In an honest perspective, I am indifferent to my future partners' sexual orientation, sex or gender, as long as I fit into the sexual orientation, sex and gender that their sexual orientation is into. I've bolded that bit because that seems to answer my own question and I seem to be rambling on, but my point is, is that even though I haven't tried it out with anyone outside the gender binary, and even though I haven't even had sex yet, I think that I could and would have a meaningful relationship with just about anyone as long as they're a suitable age that isn't just damnright wrong or breaking any laws, a nice person inside, my type of ideal personality and quite good-looking, and I really don't care about their gender.
So this being said, I might be asking a stupid question but here it is: do you think that I am bi or pan? I know that it should be my decision to decide what suits me best and tbh I think that I'm more pan than anything but am I really? I mean I could just be seen as "pancurious" but if I am willing to commit to someone genderblindly then... ?
So what do you think. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
LUKE. :)
For those who don't know:
Bisexual = romantically and/or sexually attracted to two sexes/genders, (usually male and female).
Pansexual = also known as omnisexual, romantically and/or sexually attracted to all sexes and genders, regardless of what is between the legs, as long as there is mutual love. Personality > sex. Indifferent to sex/gender. "Genderblind".
I've always called myself "bisexual" as I am familiar with those feelings and I know that I could have a relationship with either. (I have done this before). I do experience lust for men and women and I could have a good relationship with either- but I want a meaningful relationship that is indifferent to the sex and gender. And that is achievable too. Even though I have felt and seemed bi for the 2 or so years that I have known and been out, what if I am really pansexual? I mean, even though I do like men and women, (two familiar and sexy sexes), I am into trans people too, because we trans people are just men and women too, and I could even date an agender if I really wanted, all it would take is the effort to use the name and the neutral pronoun(s) which wouldn't be too hard, and I could even date an asexual too because I don't mind having a sexless relationship. In an honest perspective, I am indifferent to my future partners' sexual orientation, sex or gender, as long as I fit into the sexual orientation, sex and gender that their sexual orientation is into. I've bolded that bit because that seems to answer my own question and I seem to be rambling on, but my point is, is that even though I haven't tried it out with anyone outside the gender binary, and even though I haven't even had sex yet, I think that I could and would have a meaningful relationship with just about anyone as long as they're a suitable age that isn't just damnright wrong or breaking any laws, a nice person inside, my type of ideal personality and quite good-looking, and I really don't care about their gender.
So this being said, I might be asking a stupid question but here it is: do you think that I am bi or pan? I know that it should be my decision to decide what suits me best and tbh I think that I'm more pan than anything but am I really? I mean I could just be seen as "pancurious" but if I am willing to commit to someone genderblindly then... ?
So what do you think. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
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I am out of the closet as bi but I am also trans so if I am pan and trans then that's another 2 times I have to come out which is just rrrghmnsndbsdbn. 
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I'm actually 17 lol.
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Help! Please. :$
LUKE. :)
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