Not sure what to do, my daughter had a birthday on 9/12 and turned 11. We had a party for her, and her 4 friends that she wanted to be there from school. After the party we packed the girls up and dragged them to my house to swim for a few hrs. There was a lot of soft drinks, cake and cookies and they were pretty wound up from the sugar. Around 7pm I told them to start getting rdy to go to the mother's house where they will spend the rest of the night.
When they got out of the pool, they took off and I stayed back to clean up a little, and by the time I was rdy to leave they all were standing on the 3rd floor balcony overlooking the pool area, Spiting down to the ground. I seen them, all 5 of them as they were all spiting of the 3rd floor. As I was heading out of the pool area, I asked them please, not to spit on me. Well, one of them did, she came clean, but they all said that each other was encouraging the others to spit on me.
I feel that since they all encouraged each other and no one said not to, they are all guilty by association now, including my daughter. She did not even tell them no, don't do it, it's my dad or anything as she just went along with it. After that they all ran down the hallway screaming and laughing, loud enough that some of my neighbor's came out into the hallway looking.
This happened on 9/12 and I have not talked to my daughter, and she has not talked to me. Her mother said that she will talk to her, but was not going to make her apologize and was going to explained to her what she did was wrong and that maybe she will come to her own conclusion to apologize to me.
I am kind of at a lost, there is no respect from my daughter since I divorced her mother. I have tried to explain to her why I divorced her mother, but has said that she doesn't want to know as she don't want her mom in a bad light like I was put in. sometimes I feel like I am buying her favor, or the Disney dad.
When they got out of the pool, they took off and I stayed back to clean up a little, and by the time I was rdy to leave they all were standing on the 3rd floor balcony overlooking the pool area, Spiting down to the ground. I seen them, all 5 of them as they were all spiting of the 3rd floor. As I was heading out of the pool area, I asked them please, not to spit on me. Well, one of them did, she came clean, but they all said that each other was encouraging the others to spit on me.
I feel that since they all encouraged each other and no one said not to, they are all guilty by association now, including my daughter. She did not even tell them no, don't do it, it's my dad or anything as she just went along with it. After that they all ran down the hallway screaming and laughing, loud enough that some of my neighbor's came out into the hallway looking.
This happened on 9/12 and I have not talked to my daughter, and she has not talked to me. Her mother said that she will talk to her, but was not going to make her apologize and was going to explained to her what she did was wrong and that maybe she will come to her own conclusion to apologize to me.
I am kind of at a lost, there is no respect from my daughter since I divorced her mother. I have tried to explain to her why I divorced her mother, but has said that she doesn't want to know as she don't want her mom in a bad light like I was put in. sometimes I feel like I am buying her favor, or the Disney dad.
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