"Affair" went on longer than I thought??

I posted about this about a year ago. It feels like there is always a problem. But anyway... So I know for sure my husband has an emotional affair last summer. With his coworker. Knowing him, it was probably physical too but he would never admit it. I discovered the constant texting and phone calls June 20th of last year. It was texting all day. Constantly. He tried to delete all of them but I could see how often on our phone bill. We got in a huge fight. I left town ... Threatened to not close on our brand new home. It was a huge ordeal. He promised to stop ... So a few weeks later ... I see them texting again .. Not as much but it's there. I confronted him and he went crazy saying he would kill himself if I left and all this crazy crazy stuff. He swore he would never speak to her again.
I believed him....
Time went on .. They worked together for a few more months. He got a new job in September. I felt relieved when he got a new job bc I knew he wasn't around her.
Things slowly get better with us.... If you read my older posts you can see he's not like a super star husband or anything. But I guess you could say we worked on it. The pain of discovering the emotional affair is still there though. Sometimes I get triggers.
For some reason last night, I decided to pull our call log from last fall (after the discovery) and I noticed they had talked on the phone a few times in November ... WAY after I thought they were done talking. A month or two after being at his new job.


Now I'm wondering if the affair continued last summer even after I confronted him. They probably were able to keep it just at work (he worked in a town 30 min away)

Ugh this is just driving me nuts. Idk why I can't get over it.
If I am crazy for still obsessing over it don't be afraid to tell me lol

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