I have recently found out that my Husband was having his second affair in our 3 years of marriage, and am devastated to say the least. To give some background he is in a work industry where he takes wealthy foreigners on tours of our Country. These are often very private (2 or 3 people and often Fathers and Daughters etc). The first incident was a few months after we got married, he got close to a girl on his tour and they kept in touch after she left. The messages were very emotional and sexual but it didn't last long. I gave him a second chance and now we have a beautiful baby girl of nearly a year old and I really felt like the last year had been bliss and that our marriage was stronger than ever. About 3 weeks ago I found out that the same thing had happened on his most recent trip again. This time there was some messing around and kissing involved and they kept in contact afterwards, also sexual and emotional messages. He was telling her that she was his soulmate etc and the worst part is that this was going on while my Dad was dying of cancer. My husband was messaging the other woman while sitting in my family's home just after we had seen my Dad which to me is unforgivable. I confronted him and at first he denied it and then confessed and told me everything. He says he loves us and wants to work on our marriage But how do I move past this? Is it okay when it is just texting? I am fortunate that I have a very good job and can support myself and my daughter if I need too. But I can't stand the thought of raising her in a broken home, but I also don't want her to grow up and think this is okay.. Has anyone had any similar experience?
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