The more and more I get to know my husband the more I realise that men in general crack very dirty and filthy jokes with each other. He goes to the gym with a couple of his buddies and they have a text maraton going on sometimes about all kinds of stuff from football to other guys stuff. sometimes though the guys send him photos that are inappropriate. My guy says he used to be a participant even when he was in prior relationships not only when single but now because I have made such a big deal about it bothering me he doesnt participate. BUT he thinks it is harmless and there is nothing wrong with it.
Example of things that bother me : a guy friend of his by mistake texts peni.s as one of the words in the sentence 'what time you guys coming tonight to the gym?' so another guy sends a cartoon of three girls sucking a guys phone app with tongues out and the phone is supposed to mean a penis....?? anwyay so all the other guys are like woah buddy...then one of the guys texts 'does that mean if I get on this app i will get that treatment? well sign me in then lol' They also talk about women in the gym so eg if a girl wears short, shorts and her ass is looking big and nice etc. again my guy refrains from talking (SUPOSEDLY) but the other guys dont have any qualms. according to my guy they are not doing it all the time and it is not very very vulgar stuff so he says all guys are like this to some extent and he is not being disrecpectful and would do this if i had no problem but because i do he doesnt. Am i wrong to expect my husband to have enough integrity and not be so cheap and vulgar out of his own will? are there guys out there who dont do this stuff. is this the minority? is he right to say most guys as in 90 percent are like this? hmm....
Example of things that bother me : a guy friend of his by mistake texts peni.s as one of the words in the sentence 'what time you guys coming tonight to the gym?' so another guy sends a cartoon of three girls sucking a guys phone app with tongues out and the phone is supposed to mean a penis....?? anwyay so all the other guys are like woah buddy...then one of the guys texts 'does that mean if I get on this app i will get that treatment? well sign me in then lol' They also talk about women in the gym so eg if a girl wears short, shorts and her ass is looking big and nice etc. again my guy refrains from talking (SUPOSEDLY) but the other guys dont have any qualms. according to my guy they are not doing it all the time and it is not very very vulgar stuff so he says all guys are like this to some extent and he is not being disrecpectful and would do this if i had no problem but because i do he doesnt. Am i wrong to expect my husband to have enough integrity and not be so cheap and vulgar out of his own will? are there guys out there who dont do this stuff. is this the minority? is he right to say most guys as in 90 percent are like this? hmm....
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