She likes to write out her thoughts and feelings. Most of her writing happens on her laptop. I break into computers for a living.
Before you judge me. Invading her privacy have saved our relationship several times in the past. She has an extremely introvert personality and would never discuss her feelings or issues with anyone. I learn about her issues from her journals and I take actions to help. Specially when these issues are caused by me.
To describe my best friend in one word, he is a womanizer. Charming women with his looks and carisma is just second nature to him. Her attraction to him have been going on for more than 8 months at least and she is deeply suffering.
I am not mad, nor jealous. I understand that sometimes we have no control over these things, and I also completely trust her. Our relationship is very solid and she describes me in her journals as "the prefect husband" and her attraction to my friend as a "curse".
My initial thought was to let this pass with time. However, I am worried that this has taken much longer than to consider it a phase that will just pass by.
I am now considering either avoiding her seeing my friend for a while or the exact opposite. I think if she spends more time with him, she'll see through the carisma into his personality flows, which are pretty much a worse version of everything she hates about me :)
What do you guys think?
Before you judge me. Invading her privacy have saved our relationship several times in the past. She has an extremely introvert personality and would never discuss her feelings or issues with anyone. I learn about her issues from her journals and I take actions to help. Specially when these issues are caused by me.
To describe my best friend in one word, he is a womanizer. Charming women with his looks and carisma is just second nature to him. Her attraction to him have been going on for more than 8 months at least and she is deeply suffering.
I am not mad, nor jealous. I understand that sometimes we have no control over these things, and I also completely trust her. Our relationship is very solid and she describes me in her journals as "the prefect husband" and her attraction to my friend as a "curse".
My initial thought was to let this pass with time. However, I am worried that this has taken much longer than to consider it a phase that will just pass by.
I am now considering either avoiding her seeing my friend for a while or the exact opposite. I think if she spends more time with him, she'll see through the carisma into his personality flows, which are pretty much a worse version of everything she hates about me :)
What do you guys think?
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