hello
please keep anon
im in a relationship which has been fantastic for the last five months or so.
we've been on and off for about four years but the last five months (the most recent 'on' time) have been the best ever for us and I've really felt like we're pretty strong.
however because of past issues i have huge trust issues and it feels like for me, the jealousy and paranoia - literally creating issues where there aren't issues - is not going away.
so once more than 18 months back now, he cheated on me with a guy - we are both bisexual - as we were going through a rough patch in our relationship and subsequently i ended up getting with a friend.
six-eight months down the line and we got back together because we missed each other so much
however now its gone long distance again as he has had to move away for work.
not too long distance about an hour and a halfs train ride away
was feeling okay about it and said wed see each other as much as possible
but now I'm getting the old creeping jealousy back in - i think as a result of trust problems before. and he has told me he is moving in with this gay guy for a short period of time until he gets his flat sorted
now i want to know am i right to be paranoid about this or is it reasonable to tell him that its not okay with me.
we've already argued about it and he is clearly upset i am still finding it hard to trust him.
any feedback is welcomed xx
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