I'm curious because of this thread. In case you don't want to read it, a man was at a party with his girlfriend and he got really drunk so passed out. He woke up with her on top of him, having sex with him. He was a virgin prior to this and he felt raped at the end of this experience.
It got me thinking because whether we're sober or intoxicated, both myself and my partner have woken each other up with foreplay and then once the other is awake, have sex. We've never talked about it but since it's something we've both done sporadically for eleven years, so I feel safe to assume that neither one of us feels violated by it and it's fair game for either of us. I'm curious to hear about other people's takes on this (not the linked thread but on wake-up sex in general).
When answering this question, think about marriage or long-term relationships where you've known each other for some time and have already established a sexual relationship (not a first or third-date scenario).
Do you wake up your spouse or does your spouse wake you up? Would you feel violated/raped/molested or do you enjoy it? If you haven't woken up or been woken up this way by your spouse or SO, do you think you'd enjoy it or not?
It got me thinking because whether we're sober or intoxicated, both myself and my partner have woken each other up with foreplay and then once the other is awake, have sex. We've never talked about it but since it's something we've both done sporadically for eleven years, so I feel safe to assume that neither one of us feels violated by it and it's fair game for either of us. I'm curious to hear about other people's takes on this (not the linked thread but on wake-up sex in general).
When answering this question, think about marriage or long-term relationships where you've known each other for some time and have already established a sexual relationship (not a first or third-date scenario).
Do you wake up your spouse or does your spouse wake you up? Would you feel violated/raped/molested or do you enjoy it? If you haven't woken up or been woken up this way by your spouse or SO, do you think you'd enjoy it or not?
Put the internet to work for you.
No comments:
Post a Comment