Hey folks.
Before we split my ex was seriously depressed and going into early menopause m 38 , for about 12 mths. She hid it all that whole time and made like everything was rosey.
Well , 2yrs , she's still seriously depressed and still covering , we're divorced these days.
I still see her a few times a wk coming and going for d and a wk back l noticed a pile of pills on the table under stuff. I looked them up when l got home as she's been popping some pretty heavy stuff for the last few years.
They're a very strong anti depressant and she looks like she has enough to feed an army . She's also a nurse and she can get hold of stuff so if she wants more than the doc prescribes she can always get hold of stuff.
We've kept things on good terms right through bewteen us , especially for the best co parenting we can manage. l wouldn't say we're best friends or anything as we're both pretty guarded these days about anything to much into our own lives. And of course things are a bit strange to with everything that's happened . But she never hesitates to help if there's something l need or to speak up in my defense or look out for me if she suspects l might need it and l do the same for her and it's pretty clear we both still have at least something there.
So , , this is really worrying me . She's been on this stuff for years now , all kinds of crap. When we first split she was on massis of stuff yet covered the whole time with this happy face crap and even now , everything's suppose to be just hunky doory but after seeing all this crap on the table well.
Do you think l should do something or try to help , offer to be there , I dunno ?
Then there's also the fact that she's the mother of my daughter who is in her care a lot of the time . If she can't cope or something , l want her to know l'm here for them both but of course my daughter to if she needs a hand or a break or something .
Before we split my ex was seriously depressed and going into early menopause m 38 , for about 12 mths. She hid it all that whole time and made like everything was rosey.
Well , 2yrs , she's still seriously depressed and still covering , we're divorced these days.
I still see her a few times a wk coming and going for d and a wk back l noticed a pile of pills on the table under stuff. I looked them up when l got home as she's been popping some pretty heavy stuff for the last few years.
They're a very strong anti depressant and she looks like she has enough to feed an army . She's also a nurse and she can get hold of stuff so if she wants more than the doc prescribes she can always get hold of stuff.
We've kept things on good terms right through bewteen us , especially for the best co parenting we can manage. l wouldn't say we're best friends or anything as we're both pretty guarded these days about anything to much into our own lives. And of course things are a bit strange to with everything that's happened . But she never hesitates to help if there's something l need or to speak up in my defense or look out for me if she suspects l might need it and l do the same for her and it's pretty clear we both still have at least something there.
So , , this is really worrying me . She's been on this stuff for years now , all kinds of crap. When we first split she was on massis of stuff yet covered the whole time with this happy face crap and even now , everything's suppose to be just hunky doory but after seeing all this crap on the table well.
Do you think l should do something or try to help , offer to be there , I dunno ?
Then there's also the fact that she's the mother of my daughter who is in her care a lot of the time . If she can't cope or something , l want her to know l'm here for them both but of course my daughter to if she needs a hand or a break or something .
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