I dated this girl for 3 years, we had our ups and downs but after losing her for the last time and about 2 months past,,I realized that I missed her and loved her more than I ever thought. Don't know what you had until its gone is true.,
I called her and she had already moved on. I was devastated. I knew that the last year of our relationship,,I was a jerk big time.
I went to therapy and once day she calls me. We spoke for an hour and we both cried. She has been texting and calling almost everyday. She is still very mad and doesn't want to come back but she says that she loves me. She is still seeing this other guy but hesitantly promises not to have sex until she decides if she wants me back. Ultimatly she wants me to move on and give her 4-6 months so she can have this freedom and figure out what she wants in-life. I told her that I could wait but she would have to promise not to have sex. If she is calling me and telling me that she still loves me,,then whats the big-deal. My froiends say that she doesn't want to be controlled. She wants her freedom from me and she may or may not have sex and theres nothing I can do. I know me tho,,if she is still wanting me and needs time and I find out that she has continued to have sex with a guy just bc its something to occupy her time,,then I wont want her back.
She tells me to move on but I cant. She says that she isn't going to call but she does anyway, then it starts over.
Im confused. Does she want me or not??
I called her and she had already moved on. I was devastated. I knew that the last year of our relationship,,I was a jerk big time.
I went to therapy and once day she calls me. We spoke for an hour and we both cried. She has been texting and calling almost everyday. She is still very mad and doesn't want to come back but she says that she loves me. She is still seeing this other guy but hesitantly promises not to have sex until she decides if she wants me back. Ultimatly she wants me to move on and give her 4-6 months so she can have this freedom and figure out what she wants in-life. I told her that I could wait but she would have to promise not to have sex. If she is calling me and telling me that she still loves me,,then whats the big-deal. My froiends say that she doesn't want to be controlled. She wants her freedom from me and she may or may not have sex and theres nothing I can do. I know me tho,,if she is still wanting me and needs time and I find out that she has continued to have sex with a guy just bc its something to occupy her time,,then I wont want her back.
She tells me to move on but I cant. She says that she isn't going to call but she does anyway, then it starts over.
Im confused. Does she want me or not??
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