So I met this girl at work, and before I even met her I was told about her by a colleague (who has worked with her for 1.5 years), who advised she was hard work and one of those girls who you would have to put in a lot of effort with to get anywhere.
We have been messaging for a while, and it feels like it is always me trying to arrange days when to meet up outside of work. We both flaked a couple of times but shes always the one who says she will message later to arrange something but it then ends up being me suggesting, and her agreeing, but somehow never ends up happening! Whenever I see her at work or we message she shows interests but most of the time just says we will arrange something later...
What I want to ask is should I just say something like 'didnt realise getting to know you outside of work would be so much of an effort! if you are not interested just let me know' or something like 'damn girl do you make every guy chase this much to go out on a date with you? :p'
Up until now I have been very very laid back and jokey around about meeting up but to be honest Im tired of playing games and would rather just know straight up what the deal is.
Put the internet to work for you.
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