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Really lonely after breakup

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A few weeks ago my girlfriend of four years broke up with me completely out of the blue. We'd been living together for nearly a year, we'd been planning a life together a few days before, but now she's moved out of our flat. I'd moved to a new town just to be with her, and now I'm here on my own. I have no friends here, anyone I knew who is at all close by are her friends. I commute to London everyday for my PhD.

Now I'm just feeling really lonely (as well as heartbroken). I've seen my old friends, but they all live far away and its hard to see them regularly. I'm a really shy introverted person, so living with one person and knowing them really well is how I feel most comfortable. Its horrible coming home every night to an empty flat where we were once so happy. I don't know what to do now, I find it really hard to meet new people. Especially now when I'm still a mess from the breakup.

And because I'm shy I'm scared I'll never find another person, I've only had the one girlfriend before, and it was really lucky we met, we had a lot of time to get to know each other, I'm not sure I''ll get that chance again.

Is there anyone out there I can talk to, or does anyone have any advice?

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