I'll make a long and sordid story short. WH had an affair. D-day was 9 months ago. We are attempting R and it has been very difficult. OW is out of the picture. We've been married 20 years. WH's parents know because I made WH tell them. They are notorious rug sweepers (part of WH problems).
An Aunt that is close to us sends us an anniversary card every year. Aunt and in-laws have seen each other a few times since D-day, but the affair has been kept under very tight wraps by in-laws. The anniversary cards have always bothered me because she planned her daughter's wedding the day after ours so that she could mooch off our guest list -- she all but said this, and moved her daughter's wedding date three times as we moved ours in a futile attempt to avoid this. In the end, it was held the day after ours. Hence, she always remembers our anniversary.
WH slept with OW for the first time the day before our anniversary. Obviously I no longer wish to celebrate this day. Period. I wish to send dear Aunt the following note:
Aunt Betty -- thank you for the anniversary well wishes, but I wish to inform you that we no longer celebrate this day. I would greatly appreciate it if you would discontinue acknowledging it.
Or?
An Aunt that is close to us sends us an anniversary card every year. Aunt and in-laws have seen each other a few times since D-day, but the affair has been kept under very tight wraps by in-laws. The anniversary cards have always bothered me because she planned her daughter's wedding the day after ours so that she could mooch off our guest list -- she all but said this, and moved her daughter's wedding date three times as we moved ours in a futile attempt to avoid this. In the end, it was held the day after ours. Hence, she always remembers our anniversary.
WH slept with OW for the first time the day before our anniversary. Obviously I no longer wish to celebrate this day. Period. I wish to send dear Aunt the following note:
Aunt Betty -- thank you for the anniversary well wishes, but I wish to inform you that we no longer celebrate this day. I would greatly appreciate it if you would discontinue acknowledging it.
Or?
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