Hi All,
Let me start at the beginning, me and my wife have always had a decent sex life not every night but at least once a week, now to is more like once every 2-3 months if I'm lucky she would go without all together if it was up to her. We have discussed this on numerous occasions but all i get from her that sex is more important to me than her. We lost a child a couple of years ago (stillbirth). We then had a lovely baby boy the following year who is now 2 years old, but since then our sex life is almost non existent, she has put on some weight and says she does not like me touching her due to the fact she doesn't like how she looks, but it doesn't bother me one bit I still find her sexy and attractive as much now as when we first met which was 14 years ago. I have told her this and all I get from her is that I don't listen to her and the most important thing to me is sex, and I have told her that yes it is important for us as I feel more disconnected from her now than ever and that she does not take into consideration my feelings, as far as she is concerned I'm the one in the wrong. I love her more than anything but I cannot keep going on like this forever. I feel angry towards her that she will not even try. any advice in this would be appreciated. I do work some long hours at times and have a very good well paid job which allows her to spend a lot of time at home, in which she is always out very rarely stays in. I don't know what to do.
x
Let me start at the beginning, me and my wife have always had a decent sex life not every night but at least once a week, now to is more like once every 2-3 months if I'm lucky she would go without all together if it was up to her. We have discussed this on numerous occasions but all i get from her that sex is more important to me than her. We lost a child a couple of years ago (stillbirth). We then had a lovely baby boy the following year who is now 2 years old, but since then our sex life is almost non existent, she has put on some weight and says she does not like me touching her due to the fact she doesn't like how she looks, but it doesn't bother me one bit I still find her sexy and attractive as much now as when we first met which was 14 years ago. I have told her this and all I get from her is that I don't listen to her and the most important thing to me is sex, and I have told her that yes it is important for us as I feel more disconnected from her now than ever and that she does not take into consideration my feelings, as far as she is concerned I'm the one in the wrong. I love her more than anything but I cannot keep going on like this forever. I feel angry towards her that she will not even try. any advice in this would be appreciated. I do work some long hours at times and have a very good well paid job which allows her to spend a lot of time at home, in which she is always out very rarely stays in. I don't know what to do.
x
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