(I'll soon be going to Newcastle University)
Since I got with my girlfriend, these emotions have been getting to me over her "best friend" who is a guy, but I feel it's more than a friendship, she goes to his on nights, goes for drives with him to random places, the longest they go without speaking to each other is literally at the most throughout the day around 4 hours until one of them texts each other or it's usually the case of him ringing, he hugs her which i'm okay with as that's normal, he doesn't have a girlfriend and he's not gay.
I'm joining University soon, hoping that knowing he is going into an apprenticeship they will fade away from each other, because otherwise I feel like i'm going to have to tell her straight and literally ask her to pick either me or him as in the past I've told her that it's annoying me such as the amount of time she is investing in him and I understand that she has known him for at least 5 years but this is the peak of their relationship and they've never been this close and I know that for a fact.
Also with me living in halls will it interrupt with my relationship with her? she's perfect and certainly all I could ask for and as camp as this sounds we're meant to be.
Am I over-thinking things and pushing her away with these negative thoughts that she would cheat on me with him or get closer to him than me or?
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