I realize this is highly provocative thread.
Is the cheated on spouse completely faultless? Isn't everything shared responsibility in a marriage? I guess the question is about a proportion of the responsibility the act of cheating is the most but not all, I don't believe so.
There hasn't been an infidelity in my marriage, (am I cosmically asking for it?) I know, I don't have much to built my opinion on, since I have never experienced it for myself but I have however witnessed it in my family.
My dad cheated on my mom, for two years. He eventually left my mom and is still very much happy with my step-mom, the mistress.
My dad also raised all the children by himself and for me is the best dad in the world. He has sacrificed so much for us. My mom has always been a mess, still is. They were very young when married, started having children right way, I see the mistakes they both made. I know, my dad should have left before the affair but he is just a human and made a mistake. My mom made many mistakes, completely relaying on my dad for anything and not helping much at all. She believed because she is a woman she is entitled for things, very wrong.
After the divorce she had option to get a job and support the kids and get shared custody but she didn't want to get and keep a job so my dad raised all of us. My step-mom has been wonderful too.
This is getting too long, I hope you got my point, do you agree? Not everyone who cheats is a moral-less monster and not everyone cheated on blameless.
Is the cheated on spouse completely faultless? Isn't everything shared responsibility in a marriage? I guess the question is about a proportion of the responsibility the act of cheating is the most but not all, I don't believe so.
There hasn't been an infidelity in my marriage, (am I cosmically asking for it?) I know, I don't have much to built my opinion on, since I have never experienced it for myself but I have however witnessed it in my family.
My dad cheated on my mom, for two years. He eventually left my mom and is still very much happy with my step-mom, the mistress.
My dad also raised all the children by himself and for me is the best dad in the world. He has sacrificed so much for us. My mom has always been a mess, still is. They were very young when married, started having children right way, I see the mistakes they both made. I know, my dad should have left before the affair but he is just a human and made a mistake. My mom made many mistakes, completely relaying on my dad for anything and not helping much at all. She believed because she is a woman she is entitled for things, very wrong.
After the divorce she had option to get a job and support the kids and get shared custody but she didn't want to get and keep a job so my dad raised all of us. My step-mom has been wonderful too.
This is getting too long, I hope you got my point, do you agree? Not everyone who cheats is a moral-less monster and not everyone cheated on blameless.
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