Hi!
Recently my boyfriend of over a year told me that he'd "never heard of anyone who took so long to have sex" and this got me questioning my sexuality and whether I am asexual.
I am 18, have been with my boyfriend for over a year and I have never had sex; I am completely indifferent to sex and my feelings towards sex are more negative rather than positive. I have never suffered from a crush. In terms of men, I can see what makes men attractive and I can see which men are attractive but I don't go on to develop any sorts of feelings for these men. I have never fantasized about men (or anyone) in any way and every relationship I have been in, I have gotten with them because of their personality instead of their looks. Although my boyfriend and I have done some foreplay things I never really enjoy it that much or look forward to it like he does (don't get me wrong, he is very good at it and it does give me some pleasure but despite the pleasure I still don't exactly find it exciting)
If I am not asexual then why am I feeling like this? But
If I am asexual what does this mean for my relationship? Because the thought of having sex completely repulses me but I don't want to make him wait anymore because I feel guilty.
Please no trolls this is a genuine concern.
Thank you in advance :)
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