I'll try to make this as short as I can haha.
I met a guy on a night out 6 weeks ago, I'm 18 and in my first year of uni and he's just turned 21 and is working full time. We hit it off instantly and after seeing each other quite a bit and finally sleeping with each other (I made him wait, didn't want to sleep with him straight away) we decided that we were pretty much 'seeing each other', whatever that entails. I could tell he liked me, we'd talk every day, he would pay 35 quid for a taxi from his to mine and another 35 back to his in the morning (he lives outside the opposite end of the city) and he said that if I got with another guy it would hurt him, he told me that he turned down another girl as well and this was before we decided we were actually seeing each other. He was really sweet and was the same before and after we slept together, which made me think that he wasn't just trying to get me to bed. I got out of a 3 and a half year relationship before christmas, I'm not looking for a super serious relationship at the moment and he knows this.
Last saturday he was meant to come round mine for the night before I came home for easter break, it got to about 6pm and I messaged him on fb asking when he was coming (his phone is broken, he can't make texts or calls from it) and he replied a while later saying he had his friend's girlfriend's 21st that he totally forgot about and that he couldn't make it till later and that he'd message me in a bit. Wasn't that bothered as I was just excited to see him no matter what time he arrived, but I didn't hear from him for the rest of the night. I figured his battery had died, I was still a bit bummed but not totally upset. I messaged him later that night just saying that I guessed he wasn't coming, he saw the message the next day but didn't reply, didn't apologise or explain anything which annoyed me a bit. Got to monday night and I told him I was a bit bummed by it and asked if everything was cool but he either didn't see the question or avoided it, telling me his battery died ( which is fair enough) and he woke up at his friends the next morning then was busy that day and apologised for not letting me know.
I forgave him quickly as all I wanted was an apology then he asked how my day was etc, carrying on the conversation as we usually talk. I replied but then he didn't reply to that, this was last monday night and I he hasn't contacted me since. I didn't know whether it was intentional or not but I sent him the odd snapchat since then (which he didn't respond to) and sent him a link on fb to a dub night that looked really look (which he saw and hasn't replied to) and tbh I don't really know why all of a sudden he has gone from initiating contact pretty much every day and showing loads of signs of interest to none at all.
Any thoughts as to why he's acting like this? sighhhhh :( thanks in advance!
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