My husband and I have been married for a year, and together for 6. We are generally very happy and I consider him not only my lover, but also my best friend.
My question is this: my husband works 60 hours a week working a very physical job. He is an independent contractor specializing in masonry. We have sex about 2-3 times a week, which is not nearly as much as I would like to have. I'm pretty much ready to go any time. Often, when he gets home, he is exhausted from working long hours in the sun doing a job that is very hard on his body (and also keeps him in great shape :smthumbup:).
Over the years, I have come to appreciate quality over quantity. He is a very generous lover and always makes sure I come multiple times. He lasts a long time and the sex is very hot. I am very generous with oral, amd often give him unsolicited (we jokingly call them no-strings-attached) blow jobs. He's very affectionate and touchy feely. We flirt and talk about sex a lot.
I would like to try to increase the frequency, but worry that I will get turned down, as it has happened in the past. I also want to be sympathetic to his work load. I too work full-time and am on my feet all day. Do any of you ladies have experience with a man who works in this type of physically demanding job? Any tips? Men, any insight?
We also have a significant age difference which I know comes into play. I'm in my mid 20s, he's early 40s. Obviously our drives and energy levels will be different, and that's to be expected. How often are you men in your 40s having sex? How often would you have it if you were never turned down?
Thanks for any insight!
My question is this: my husband works 60 hours a week working a very physical job. He is an independent contractor specializing in masonry. We have sex about 2-3 times a week, which is not nearly as much as I would like to have. I'm pretty much ready to go any time. Often, when he gets home, he is exhausted from working long hours in the sun doing a job that is very hard on his body (and also keeps him in great shape :smthumbup:).
Over the years, I have come to appreciate quality over quantity. He is a very generous lover and always makes sure I come multiple times. He lasts a long time and the sex is very hot. I am very generous with oral, amd often give him unsolicited (we jokingly call them no-strings-attached) blow jobs. He's very affectionate and touchy feely. We flirt and talk about sex a lot.
I would like to try to increase the frequency, but worry that I will get turned down, as it has happened in the past. I also want to be sympathetic to his work load. I too work full-time and am on my feet all day. Do any of you ladies have experience with a man who works in this type of physically demanding job? Any tips? Men, any insight?
We also have a significant age difference which I know comes into play. I'm in my mid 20s, he's early 40s. Obviously our drives and energy levels will be different, and that's to be expected. How often are you men in your 40s having sex? How often would you have it if you were never turned down?
Thanks for any insight!
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