After the break down of a serious relationship, I slept around a bit and although it was fun, I had this slight feeling of guilt and shame.
I have also dated a few people recently, and usually sleep, or have some sort of sexual contact early (i.e. the second/first date).
I am in a fling type of relationship at the moment, but although I don't sleep with anyone else, I have thought about it as we are not serious and I would not be cheating or lying. But then I feel guilty and shamed so I don't.
I enjoy sex, and would rather concentrate on education then a relationship, but the judgement of others is putting me off.
I know it's no ones business but I'm told I have no self respect (?!), I'm easy, and somehow less of a person if I have casual sex, or sleep with someone so fast. I hate to admit it, but it makes me feel dirty when people say these things and like I need to defend myself.
What exactly is so wrong with being a "slut"?
As long as the sex is safe, and no one is being lied too, then why is it bad?:S
I have also dated a few people recently, and usually sleep, or have some sort of sexual contact early (i.e. the second/first date).
I am in a fling type of relationship at the moment, but although I don't sleep with anyone else, I have thought about it as we are not serious and I would not be cheating or lying. But then I feel guilty and shamed so I don't.
I enjoy sex, and would rather concentrate on education then a relationship, but the judgement of others is putting me off.
I know it's no ones business but I'm told I have no self respect (?!), I'm easy, and somehow less of a person if I have casual sex, or sleep with someone so fast. I hate to admit it, but it makes me feel dirty when people say these things and like I need to defend myself.
What exactly is so wrong with being a "slut"?
As long as the sex is safe, and no one is being lied too, then why is it bad?:S
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