I just thought I would write some thoughts about this issue and it would be nice to get comments about it.
So, I have been single for 10 years and I am sure that the main reason for this is because I used to have really bad anxiety and was especially bad at talking to women, my mind would go blank. It is funny reflecting on my past with regards to this issue because I think the potential for getting into a relationship was presented to me numerous times, but I was too anxious, too reserved and blind to any signs.
To you guys and girls out there who are really shy in this area and to the people who get affected by anxiety in everyday life I can truly identify with you.
Recently everything has changed for me though... I am lucky that my anxiety levels have subsided totally and I have no inhibition about talking to people at all... I can finally show who I am as a person, just be myself and not care what others think which is an incredible release!
Why not just ask a women you find attractive if they would like to go out for a drink? Why not just chat to that person you like about, well, anything? It seems so silly thinking back on it... Have some damn confidence in yourself or you will inevitably miss chances.
Tell that person you like them... It could turn into something great and it could totally be worth it.
This post is especially directed to those who have a barrier up and don't let anyone in or back away from situations of this nature. You don't want to be like me and be single and alone for what is now 10 years.
Seize the day, be positive and I truly believe good things should come your way. Try and have confidence in yourself... In the end it does not really matter what others think and life is too short to worry, take a chance.
So, I have been single for 10 years and I am sure that the main reason for this is because I used to have really bad anxiety and was especially bad at talking to women, my mind would go blank. It is funny reflecting on my past with regards to this issue because I think the potential for getting into a relationship was presented to me numerous times, but I was too anxious, too reserved and blind to any signs.
To you guys and girls out there who are really shy in this area and to the people who get affected by anxiety in everyday life I can truly identify with you.
Recently everything has changed for me though... I am lucky that my anxiety levels have subsided totally and I have no inhibition about talking to people at all... I can finally show who I am as a person, just be myself and not care what others think which is an incredible release!
Why not just ask a women you find attractive if they would like to go out for a drink? Why not just chat to that person you like about, well, anything? It seems so silly thinking back on it... Have some damn confidence in yourself or you will inevitably miss chances.
Tell that person you like them... It could turn into something great and it could totally be worth it.
This post is especially directed to those who have a barrier up and don't let anyone in or back away from situations of this nature. You don't want to be like me and be single and alone for what is now 10 years.
Seize the day, be positive and I truly believe good things should come your way. Try and have confidence in yourself... In the end it does not really matter what others think and life is too short to worry, take a chance.
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