1-1/2 years ago my ex moved in with her AP. Yesterday I get a text "R*** has moved out, I asked him to". We've only been communicating about child issues since then, so it was surprising that she told me. She also said that she has to "get my life in order and can't do it with him here". I told her that it sounded like a good idea and left it at that. When told about it, D12 was quite happy.
I'm glad that he got what was coming to him, I always felt that it was inevitable that it would unravel. After all, he was just a rebound type relationship for her.
The thought did cross my mind that maybe she's angling for a return to me, but as I thought about whether I still had feelings for her, I couldn't muster any. It will be 2 years in May since dday. I feel at peace with being single and free of her drama. The passage of time and what she did to me and her daughter has apparently killed the feelings I had for her.
It's good that I feel healed (mostly), but I'm sad thinking about what we had as a family and she threw it away. She was "so in love" with him, now he's been tossed. Who knows, he might be back, but I don't care either way. I'm looking forward, a new life.
I'm glad that he got what was coming to him, I always felt that it was inevitable that it would unravel. After all, he was just a rebound type relationship for her.
The thought did cross my mind that maybe she's angling for a return to me, but as I thought about whether I still had feelings for her, I couldn't muster any. It will be 2 years in May since dday. I feel at peace with being single and free of her drama. The passage of time and what she did to me and her daughter has apparently killed the feelings I had for her.
It's good that I feel healed (mostly), but I'm sad thinking about what we had as a family and she threw it away. She was "so in love" with him, now he's been tossed. Who knows, he might be back, but I don't care either way. I'm looking forward, a new life.
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