i posted a few posts on the divorced forum.
anyhow, a little back story.
during the holidays my wife started showing up late and a couple days she didnt come home, said her friend was too drunk to drive her.
i got extremely mad and quit talking to her for a bout a week, so she decided to keep going out since i was there to watch the kids. 2 weeks into january she admitted that she had found someone else. i asked for how long and she said 2 weeks officially. meaning she had been flirting with the other guy at work for a while.
now for some reason i'm not too affected for the fact that she cheated, but more for the end of the relationship. i always wanted a good family and I said i would always be there for my family.
she doesnt feel guilty about cheating and always tells its my fault. I now understand that it is not my fault. a cheater chooses to cheat and is not forced to.
i been doing my best not to talk to her at all. just about the kids. we are supposed to meet up to fill the divorce papers on saturday. i agreed and didnt try to change her mind anymore. at this point i'm just going with the flow and staying strong and doing the 180. i want to go dark but i got kids.
once in a while i have flashes of her and the other man, but they are very brief and I stop them right away.
Is she too far gone? she got dumped by the OM. and she still not trying to R. makes me think she is just to far gone. I did say some things that greatly upset her but it was in response to what she said about me.
I would like some people to tell me what they think. I need to view things from a different perspective. I'm still raw in this and I dont think i can see things clear enough.
anyhow, a little back story.
during the holidays my wife started showing up late and a couple days she didnt come home, said her friend was too drunk to drive her.
i got extremely mad and quit talking to her for a bout a week, so she decided to keep going out since i was there to watch the kids. 2 weeks into january she admitted that she had found someone else. i asked for how long and she said 2 weeks officially. meaning she had been flirting with the other guy at work for a while.
now for some reason i'm not too affected for the fact that she cheated, but more for the end of the relationship. i always wanted a good family and I said i would always be there for my family.
she doesnt feel guilty about cheating and always tells its my fault. I now understand that it is not my fault. a cheater chooses to cheat and is not forced to.
i been doing my best not to talk to her at all. just about the kids. we are supposed to meet up to fill the divorce papers on saturday. i agreed and didnt try to change her mind anymore. at this point i'm just going with the flow and staying strong and doing the 180. i want to go dark but i got kids.
once in a while i have flashes of her and the other man, but they are very brief and I stop them right away.
Is she too far gone? she got dumped by the OM. and she still not trying to R. makes me think she is just to far gone. I did say some things that greatly upset her but it was in response to what she said about me.
I would like some people to tell me what they think. I need to view things from a different perspective. I'm still raw in this and I dont think i can see things clear enough.
Put the internet to work for you.
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