Stupidly the other night, I was drunk and told my friend that I liked this girl. He told her that I liked her and she told my friend that she finds me 'too flirty' or some vague response like that. I'm not that flirty at all, just being nice. I felt too drunk to say anything to her that night after being rejected so I left it there as I didn't want to mess up any further. I have never been in a relationship so I'm really sorry for sounding a bit clueless but I could really do with some advice. I still think she likes me (I won't go into details but basically all the signs are there and no I'm not in denial I genuinely think that).
I just can't help but think that her saying 'I'm too flirty' isn't proper rejection? My friend told me a few days before that 'I should make a move' and she talks about me an awful lot saying I'm generous, funny etc. I really want to see her in person, tell her how I feel (sober) and not through somebody else (big mistake) and see what she says. If she says no, fair enough. I'll just accept it and explain to her I still want to be friends. (We're like best friends at Uni). Is it possible that she was just embarrassed to admit she liked me to my friend? I don't really know what to do or say next. Should I text her and ask to meet up to explain? I just feel that if I don't act or talk to her soon about it, it could become awkward and that's the last thing I want. I did text her the morning after saying 'Sorry about drinking a bit too much last night' and she said 'haha! It's fine :)' but that's the only communication we have had since. (3 days).
Thanks.
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I just can't help but think that her saying 'I'm too flirty' isn't proper rejection? My friend told me a few days before that 'I should make a move' and she talks about me an awful lot saying I'm generous, funny etc. I really want to see her in person, tell her how I feel (sober) and not through somebody else (big mistake) and see what she says. If she says no, fair enough. I'll just accept it and explain to her I still want to be friends. (We're like best friends at Uni). Is it possible that she was just embarrassed to admit she liked me to my friend? I don't really know what to do or say next. Should I text her and ask to meet up to explain? I just feel that if I don't act or talk to her soon about it, it could become awkward and that's the last thing I want. I did text her the morning after saying 'Sorry about drinking a bit too much last night' and she said 'haha! It's fine :)' but that's the only communication we have had since. (3 days).
Thanks.
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