Where do i start... We were married a year ago and a few months later my mother came down to visit for 10 days. The ten days turned into 3 because my mom and my wife went at it. I tried to mediate but my wife ended up filing for divorce. I basically begged her back and admitted my wrongdoing as maybe i should have stuck up for her more. I was trying to be a mediator (in the middle) and my wife thinks i should have chose her. Fast forward to today. We went to counseling for about 3 months and the baby talks started. Everytime my mom comes up on a conversation i feel like if i even remotely hint at hey i love my mom and i dont like hearing negative thoughts about her, divorce comes out of her mouth. She feels that i should have protected our family from my mother and seems to think i am incapable of this. I worked really hard through therapy and now today she wants to give up. I dont know what to do at this point. All i said to her was that i dont like to hear her talking crap to my face about my mom because i cant get a new mom. I definately acknowledge her feelings where i think my mom was wrong when she came. But i am at my wits end.
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