This is a bit embarrassing for me, but since this is anonymous, I feel I can ask for advice. I fantasize about being dominated, or to be exact, about other women being dominated. I can't put myself into my fantasies for whatever reason. During foreplay and sex I play these fantasies in my head to become aroused and climax. I've asked my DH to be more assertive but I think I may have made this difficult for him from the start as I had some poor sexual experiences in the past when I branched out and found myself very unwilling to go down that road again and open myself up to humiliation. Now, though sex is still ending in climax, we're both a little bored. DH would be happy with me just being on top all the time, but I feel like I'd like something more interesting. I asked him if he could bring in a new position, hoping he'd do a little research and take the lead. I want/need him to be the dominant one, just for a change. I feel like that while I take contr ol much of the time, can't seem to help myself, that's not what I really want. Wondering if I've emasculated him.
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