I've lurked these forums for a couple of years now and one of the main opinions posited is that women should have no problem getting a guy. One of the common pieces of advice given was to ask a guy out and how apparently any guy would be happy be to asked and so many guys like girls but are too shy etc etc.
There was a guy I quite liked who I'd met at a party and we had met up a quite few times to go cinema, pubs, generally hang out. Long story short I asked him out and he said no but he would consider me as a casual f-buddy :S my confidence was shattered to pieces after that.
A year later I eventually built back up my confidence so I thought, what the heck, I'm 21 at university never had a real boyfriend and there was a guy I liked in my lectures. We'd studied together a lot during this term and talked in lectures and we shared some nerdy interests. I thought I would have an ok chance so I took the plunge and asked him out :o he said no very nicely but it hurt like absolute hell all the same.
All I can say is I now how so much respect for guys who get rejected all the time. Two times has already depressed me so much and made me feel like there is something wrong with me :(
I really don't think I have the confidence to ask every again but I do feel so lonely sometimes and sad all my friends have/had serious boyfriends except me.
There was a guy I quite liked who I'd met at a party and we had met up a quite few times to go cinema, pubs, generally hang out. Long story short I asked him out and he said no but he would consider me as a casual f-buddy :S my confidence was shattered to pieces after that.
A year later I eventually built back up my confidence so I thought, what the heck, I'm 21 at university never had a real boyfriend and there was a guy I liked in my lectures. We'd studied together a lot during this term and talked in lectures and we shared some nerdy interests. I thought I would have an ok chance so I took the plunge and asked him out :o he said no very nicely but it hurt like absolute hell all the same.
All I can say is I now how so much respect for guys who get rejected all the time. Two times has already depressed me so much and made me feel like there is something wrong with me :(
I really don't think I have the confidence to ask every again but I do feel so lonely sometimes and sad all my friends have/had serious boyfriends except me.
Put the internet to work for you.
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